I am interrupting my regularly scheduled blog to make a reflective post today. Yes, my blogs have been scheduled for the past two weeks because I felt it was more important to spend time with my husband, family and friends. I took an intermission. I scheduled rather than leave each day empty because I’ve had a lot to say in 2013 and I felt some bore repeating. From all of the great comments, retweets, shares and likes I have received, I know it was the right choice.
For me 2013 was an amazing year both personally and business wise. There were a lot of changes and in retrospect each of them were positive. Sure I made some mistakes, but there is no success without some failure.
One of the changes I made was to focus on marketing my prints. For years I resisted selling prints with the mistaken belief that it would somehow cheapen my original work. I have discovered the opposite to be true. While my prints sales continue to increase, the sale of originals remains steady at much more appropriate pricing. I no longer feel like I am under appreciated. I can live off my prints and create for the sheer joy of it without a single worry about selling originals or commission work. I can now explore photography and digital work with great passion that is undiluted by constant struggling for sales. This is a great place to be as an artist!
Personally, I have had to let go of some negative people who were keeping me from being my best. A few friends and even some family members no longer have a place in my inner circle. I am what they call “middle aged”…..And I find in this second half of my upcoming life that I plan on being a lot more selective than I have been in the past. Mistakes will be forgiven, but abuse will not be tolerated in any form. With this said, I have finally found a wonderfully small yet supportive group of artist friends who consistently promote my work, share experiences and send me love/support when needed. And I do the same for them. In 2013 I learned that with a better attitude, I can attract better friends. I have also renewed my relationships with my sister and brother and have found great friendship, love and support there as well. I celebrated 10 years with my wonderful husband in a romantic getaway that restored and invigorated us.
I have so much great work and camaraderie planned for 2014. Everything is in place for me to have the BEST year of my life!
My hope is that each of you reading this blog can reflect back on the passing year and see the good in all of your experiences. That even in the negative you can find the good lesson. I wish that each of you look to 2014 with optimism and grace. Happy New Year!
Should old acquaintance be forgot,
and never brought to mind…..